Inject some imaginative and goofy play into your lovemaking routine by following these tips from real North Shore women — all of whom have sworn me to secrecy about their identities. Many couples only feel truly uninhibited in a hotel room or when their kids are out of the house, but the truth is, adult play dates are easiest to schedule at home in the evening. So before the games begin, make sure you have a decent lock on your bedroom door so you can get silly without worrying about interruptions. Make a regular date night extra exciting by letting your inner bad girl run the show.
Boring Sex: Ways to Spice Up the Sex in Your Relationship
Sex is everywhere — if we're not watching actual sex scenes on TV or in the movies, we're watching celebrities parade down red carpets practically naked. It's not just porn that sets unrealistic expectations for what's sexy anymore, and it can be hard to feel like you measure up when it comes time to get naked IRL. But if you want to keep sex fresh in a long-term relationship or you want to feel more confident in the bedroom, there are plenty of things you can do without going OTT. Just give these tricks a try. People should not have sex without talking about it — lovingly, salaciously, practically, fearlessly — and often. How else can we know how to thrill each other? Couples don't ask for what they want because they're afraid they won't get it.
Spice Up Your Sex Life With These Tricks Experts Say Actually Work
According to data in the Journal of Sex Research , 27 percent of women and 41 percent of men are sexually dissatisfied in their current relationship. From lack of time to medical conditions, there are lots of valid reasons why the spark may be gone from the bedroom. Sexual tastes and needs vary, so what satisfies one person may not satisfy another. But different people who are no longer sexually satisfied in their relationships may be experiencing similar problems. Sex may feel more like a chore than a fun activity.
IstockphotoFrom Health magazine Q: Were trying to get pregnant , and sex feels like work. How can we make it fun again? A: When sex becomes more about peeing on sticks than pleasure, try these tricks. Forget your cycle. That magic window of ovulation can also be a desire-stifling trap.